by COSS Blog Contributor Joann Homen
Although most people in our lives truly wish only the best for us at times we run across individuals that are self-centered, jealous and want to see you fail.
At times we ALL have done something that pisses someone off, it is part of life and differing options.
Mature people can accept that we all have personal opinions and ideas and can agree to disagree with someone that has differing views than our own.
When selfish people want us to fail and are rooting for that very thing, first off you need to get the heck away from them. Eliminate them from your life if at all possible. These bad actors are not the type of people you want in your life and they are not acting in your best interest.
If people are rooting for you to fail and the prospect of you doing so delights them you need to evict these individuals from your life. I'm not sure why the heck would you want to keep these bad actors in your life anyway, so just get rid of them if possible or minimize your exposure to them.
The way to beat these types of people is not to get caught up debating or arguing with them, the best way to beat these people is to "SUCCEED" at the very thing they are hoping you will fail at. This my friends is the best way to handle the any bad actors that might come into your life and wish you ill will.
Disappoint them by succeeding and rise above their ill will and stand tall and proud that you took the higher road and didn't engage their negative behaviour and ill wishes.